Silence

Communication plays a huge part in any kind of relationship. Without communication there can be no relationship. However, there comes a time where relationships go silent. Whenever this happens, there's only so much communicating a person can do, if the other party's communication is very short or non-existent. As human beings, we need relationships in life in order to live a happy and healthy life. 

This year has been a year full of lessons in relationships so far. I'm learning when to keep fighting for them and when you just have to let go and let God and move on. We all say things from time to time that hurt each other's feelings, when this happens, you may need to have time and stay silent until you can speak from your heart and not in the heat of the moment, where we often say things out of anger we don't mean. It also gives time for us to reflect and see if the relationship that you have is worth keeping or letting go. These moments of silence say so much about us and what we think about a person more than our voices can. 

However, what happens when the period of silence is over on your end and the other party is not reciprocating the same response? The best thing to do is to let go. It may be hard but, once you know your worth it's easier to do. In a healthy relationship, you don't have to try so hard. If you try so hard, it ends up becoming toxic and emotionally draining you. If you or anyone you know are currently going through this, please know you're worth, even if they don't. Know that there are people out there who do or who will. People that know your worth, will be in your life no matter what. :)

~Elia~